Being Single is for you
So, you want to be a single bird forever and ever? You don’t dream of walking down the aisle and tying the knot? That’s fine! You are entitled to lead your life as you want…if you have made up your mind, don’t let anyone make you think otherwise. Read our 7 tips on how not to be fooled into thinking marriage is something you need, want or must do!
- 1.It’s a Choice…It’s Your Choice
Make sure your decision never to commit is yours, and has not been taken by your single friends, influential family or ‘special’ someone you have in your life at the moment.
- 2.Stand Up to Natural Cycle of Life
Get over the social mentality or popular belief that getting married is part of the natural cycle of life. Most believe true happiness if found only when you devote yourself to someone, wholly and completely! Be proud of who you are and stand up to this social mentality. You have better things to do than devote your entire life to just one person…
- 3.Always be Frank & Honest
From the start, be frank and honest with all your partners that you don’t intend on committing…like ever! Honesty is always the best way. Never lead someone on…it always ends badly.
- 4.Be Prepared to Say Goodbye
Be prepared you will have to leave relationships if the person you are with do not share the same mentality or wants commitment. No matter how dreamy they are, you need to be firm…or else it will not end well! Dodge the bullet before things get messy.
- 5.Make Yourself Clear
Tell your family…especially mother…you do not intend to get married and that you will not be subjected to any manipulations or pressure at forcing you to change your mind.
- 6.Make Good Friends
Making the decision of not marrying ever means you will grow old…alone! So make sure your friends will stick around. The more the friends the merrier you will be!
- 7.Trust Yourself
Never believe any surveys that prove happiness depends on finding the right one! You will lose the game and feel miserable. If you are a hundred percent sure marriage is not for you…than trust yourself and stick by your decision. After all, you know yourself better than anyone right?
And who knows…when you least expect it, you might even meet someone who will change your mind. That’s a whole different story…so we will cross that bridge when we come to it!